Union and Division – 9 quotes from Thomas Merton’s book – New Seeds of Contemplation

by Mark Votava

download (9)1. In order to find myself

“In order to become myself I must cease to be what I always thought I wanted to be, and in order to find myself I must go out of myself, and in order to live I have to die.”

2. Isolate myself

“I will never be able to find myself if I isolate myself from the rest of mankind as if I were a different kind of being.”

3. I must look for my identity

“I must look for my identity, somehow, not only in God but in other men.”

4. The man who lives in division

“The man who lives in division is living in death. He cannot find himself because he is lost; he has ceased to be a reality. The person he believes himself to be is a bad dream. And when he dies he will discover that he long ago ceased to exist…”

5. Only an “individual”

“The man who lives in division is not a person but only an ‘individual.’”

6. Admiring the distance between you and me

“I have what you have not. I am what you are not. I have taken what you have failed to take and I have seized what you could never get. Therefore you suffer and I am happy, you are despised and I am praised, you die and I live; you are nothing and I am something, and I am all the more something because you are nothing. And thus I spend my life admiring the distance between you and me; at times this even helps me to forget the other men who have what I have not and who have taken what I was too slow to take and who have seized what was beyond my reach, who are praised as I cannot be praised and who live on my death…”

7. Desires and ambitions and appetites

“People who know nothing of God and whose lives are centered on themselves, imagine that they can only find themselves by asserting their own desires and ambitions and appetites in a struggle with the rest of the world. They try to become real by imposing themselves on other people, by appropriating for themselves some share of the limited supply of created goods and thus emphasizing the difference between themselves and the other men who have less than they, or nothing at all.”

8. Building a barrier of contrast and distinction

“They can only conceive one way of becoming real: cutting themselves off from other people and building a barrier of contrast and distinction between themselves and other men. They do not know that reality is to be sought not in division but in unity, for we are ‘members one of another.’”

9. Efforts to make myself more real and more myself

“…my natural efforts to make myself more real and more myself, make me less real and less myself, because they revolve around a lie.”

How are you pursuing unity over division with others?

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